July 20, 2021

On one of my recent cemetery adventures I spotted a symbol I haven’t seen on too many markers.1 It was the lily of the valley. I’ve always like the slightly old-fashioned scent of the flower, but I wondered what meaning it held. Did someone mistake the lily of the valley as the French fleur-de-lis? The carving does look a bit like a fleur-de-lis. The flower is a symbol of “rebirth and humility.”2


Grave stone with lily of the valley.3

  1. Photograph of the grave marker of Alice O. Wildman (1850-1912), taken at Central Cemetery, Brookfield, Connecticut on 20 July 2021; digital image, in collection of Vanessa Wood.
  2. Rebekah P., “Lily of the Valley Flower Meaning and Symbolism,” blog post, 17 March 2021, Florgeous (https://florgeous.com/lily-of-the-valley-flower-meaning : viewed 21 July 2021), para. 7.
  3. Photograph by Vanessa Wood, “Wildman Grave Stone,” Central Cemetery, Brookfield, Conn. : photographed 21 July 2021).
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Vanessa Wood is a genealogical researcher and writer specializing in American family history, with particular depth in Southern states, California, and families with roots in the United Kingdom. She is a member of the Association of Professional Genealogists (APG) and the National Genealogical Society (NGS), and holds a Certificate in Genealogical Research from Boston University. She is a First Prize winner of the 2026 Montana Family History Writing Contest and has 25+ published articles in journals including the National Genealogical Society Quarterly. Vanessa is the author of Pryor Wives: Stories of Family, Fortune, and Fiasco (2023), Board in Venice (2025), and The Kinship Papers, Vol. 1. Her books are available on Amazon.com. She can be contacted via email.

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